1. When you cut yourself, clean and bandage it.

2. Do not start smoking cigarettes because the boy who broke your heart does.

3. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

4. Cutting calories doesn’t do anything but make you unhappy.

5. If the number on the scale rises, throw it out.

6. The first girl you ever “date” is going to call the police on you even though she lives three thousand miles away, because you’re going to tell her that you’re not in a good mental state shortly after you’ve “broken up”.

7. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

8. Break up with the boy who says, “You had a sexy phase!” when you tell him that you’ve dated a girl before.

9. Dating your friends is not always the best idea, but you can still be friends after you’ve broken up with her.

10. Your mother will try to become your best friend because you’re leaving for college soon. Let her.

11. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

12. Your closest friend will stop talking to you when you leave for college.

13. It’s okay to cry.

14. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

15. When you cut yourself again, clean and bandage it. Do not be ashamed.

16. Your anxiety is going to try and control your entire life. Tell it to shut the hell up, because you’re trying to live and that task is hard enough as it is.

17. The past has a funny way of coming back in the form of you developing a crush on another friend.

18. Try not to hate yourself for breaking up with your boyfriend.

19. If you’re still smoking, apologize silently to your mother.

20. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

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i’m jealous of
your pillows
and of your sheets

i want to hear
the sound of
your heartbeat

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Publication: Love MagazineIssue: #8 Fall 2012Title: Car SongModels: Doutzen KroesMagdalena Frackowiak, and Kendra Spears(male models: Miles McMillan and Duncan Pyke)

Anyone who is going to be a writer knows enough at fifteen to write several novels.

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Jen Dau @ New York Models by Haylee Barsky

Anonymous asked: is it bad that catcalling gives me an ego boost?



i get how you would think that. i do. i was there when i was 14-15 and my self-esteem was so bad that ANY attention was good attention to me but please

please never mistake catcalling/sexual harassment on the street as anything other than just that

sexual harassment

it’s not a compliment, it’s not anything positive it is awful and disrespectful and fucking so so so dehumanizing

your body isn’t on display for those fucking shitheads to comment on, to sexualize as they please and you are not an object.

you are a complex, whole, realized, beautiful human being and they have NO fucking right to infringe on your personal place to let you know that they think your ass is nice

it’s not a compliment. it’s insulting, and i understand where you might take enjoyment from that but it’s such a poisonous mindset to be in because you’re not a sexual thing for these scumbag shitstain assholes to comment on

one day someone is going to see you for the radiant and magnificent human being that you are but until that day please never look at what those people do as a compliment

they don’t see you for what you are, they don’t care about your hopes and dreams and all that other shit that makes you you — you’re a pair of tits and an ass to them and fuck that FUCK that shit because you’re not

i’ve dealt with this shit since i was 12 and i have NO tolerance for it and i hope someday that you’re in this mentality too, friend

because the people who catcall are on the lowest end of human evolution and deserve to be punched in the face with a fist reinforced with fucking adamantium

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Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isn’t given freely by another person, it isn’t worth having.


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